If a girl does not have a boyfriend and she is willing to chat with you, you can understand that the girl is interested in you. But if a girl obviously already has a boyfriend, but instead of chatting with her own boyfriend, she comes to chat with you, an outsider, what does this mean for the girl? Let’s analyze it for everyone.
What does it mean when a girl still chats with me when she has a boyfriend?
1. A girl just wants you to be my friend
Even if a girl already has a boyfriend, she You can still chat with your friends. Does it mean that when a girl has a boyfriend, her former friends are no longer friends? Can’t I chat with my male friends anymore? Therefore, if a girl just talks about normal topics with friends, there is no problem. Even if there is a problem, it may be that you have some intention towards her. After all, chatting between friends is a normal thing.
But something should be noted here. If a girl often chats with you, and the chat content often involves life matters or complains about her boyfriend or complains to you, it feels like this limit may have been reached. When you are promoted to a male best friend, you can control your own boundaries. Just be normal. Chatting with normal friends or good friends is fine.
2. The person a girl really likes is you
Maybe a girl doesn’t like her boyfriend very much. What she really likes is you. In this case, she will still chat with you even though she has a boyfriend. Maybe it's because her good feelings make her feel like she doesn't know which one she likes, or your way of chatting suits her taste; or her boyfriend puts her at a distance, and she doesn't like her boyfriend that much; because she doesn't know her What is the reason for falling in love... In short, she is looking for an answer. Maybe you are the person she likes but can't be with.
If this is the case, girls are actually a bit like riding a donkey to look for a horse. In fact, we do not approve of such behavior. Even if you really like a girl, it is recommended that you stay away from her first and wait until she has dealt with her emotional life before starting. If she flirts with you while enjoying her boyfriend's kindness to her, then you should pay attention. Even if such a girl is with you, one day she may change her mind and like someone else.
3. A girl’s boyfriend ignores her
If it is not convenient for a girl’s boyfriend to chat with her, Or you have ignored her in life. At this time, the girl wants to chat. What should I do? At this time, the girl wants to find someone to chat with her. Just when you are willing to chat with her, the girl will continue chatting with you, making up for her boyfriend's neglect of her.
There is an example around me. The girl obviously has a boyfriend, but the boyfriend gives her very little care and companionship. However, she has a male friend who treats her well in every possible way. her boyfriendWhen they don't get care and love over there, they will look for this male friend to chat or date. Maybe this is what we often call the spare tire. Or you have something that she can’t get from her boyfriend!
