Many boys lack the skills to communicate with girls. After a few words of conversation, girls will not reply, or they will reply with short words such as um and uh to deal with you. At this time, boys may have realized the problem, but they don't know how to deal with it. Below, I will analyze for you the real meaning of a girl saying "Uh-huh" and teach you how to respond to a girl's "Uh-huh" with high emotional intelligence.
1. What does a girl really mean when she says uh?
1. If a girl is very eager to chat, then she will open up the chatterbox and talk to you endlessly. You just need to Just echo a word or two appropriately. But if a girl doesn't want to continue chatting with you, then she may reply to you with uh, um, oh, okay, etc. She wants you to give up the chat on your own initiative.
2. If you have had a good conversation with a girl before and the girl’s feedback is also very good, but you have different views on an issue, and the girl doesn’t agree with it very much, and you insist on your opinion and are unwilling to compromise, it will be a stalemate. In fact, it will be difficult for both parties if it goes down, so the girl will use her forehead to smooth things over. There is no need to be so serious at this time, and it is normal to have your own opinions.
3. Maybe you did something that the girl found unbelievable and didn’t agree with. She didn’t know how to reply to you, so out of politeness she had to reply with a single word.
Generally speaking, when girls say, it actually means that the atmosphere of your chat is not very good. If you don’t want to break this situation at this time, Otherwise, the subsequent chat will be awkward or unsustainable.
2. How to respond to a girl’s compliments with high emotional intelligence
Guys, don’t be anxious when a girl says something to you. There are ways to alleviate this embarrassing situation. Here are some tips: Please share the specific operation methods.
1. Deliberately tease girls to lighten the atmosphere
Girls: Uh
Boys : You are going to chat to death
Girls: Uh
Boys: Can we still chat happily?
Girls: Uh
p>Boy: Goose goose, the song is singing to the sky, are you reciting a poem?
Deliberately tease girls about saying "um", strengthen your chat framework during the chat, not be influenced by the girl's emotions, guide the direction of the chat, and avoid awkward conversations.
2. Establish effective interaction with girls
Girls: Um
Boys: It is indeed a bit embarrassing
Girl: A bit...
Boy: Let me treat you to a meal to eliminate the embarrassment
Girl: Uh
Boys: I feel nervous chatting with girls, especially good-looking ones
Girls: Haha, really
Boys: Wait for a few seconds, I’ll restart my brain. This time I switched to w10 system
Girl: Um
Boy: I found a problem for you
Girl: What problem?
Boys: Are all good-looking girls so cold and talkative?
I hope that next time I meet a girl who complains, I can learn to use the above-mentioned high-EQ method to reply to her.
