Recently, I had a chat with a few close girlfriends about the topic of love. As someone who has been through it, I really want to share some experiences with sisters who are currently in relationships. Honestly, when we're in love, it's easy to get carried away, but there are some bottom lines that really shouldn't be crossed, otherwise, we often end up getting hurt.
First, let's talk about borrowing money. A friend of mine suffered from this; her boyfriend wanted to start a business and asked her to help with a loan. The result? The business failed, the boyfriend walked away, and she was left alone to pay off the debt. A netizen named "Mrs. Traveler66" in the comments section rightly said, "A little more rationality can avoid a lot of unnecessary harm." Really, no matter how much you love someone, don't risk your own credit.
Next, let's discuss the topic of premarital pregnancy. My cousin went through this; the man's family immediately changed their attitude, and the dowry was halved. "Unstained Ink" in the comments section was spot on: "In the end, the man can avoid all responsibilities." That's exactly right; the physical and psychological harm is borne by the woman. So sisters, you must protect yourselves and not let momentary emotions cloud your judgment.
Another very important point is not to easily give up your career. I know a sister who, after getting married, was told by her husband, "I'll take care of you," so she quit her job to stay at home with the kids. The result? Now she has to consider her husband's mood even when buying a durian. A comment that was particularly poignant said, "Who wasn't the little princess at home, living a carefree life?" Yes, we deserve a better life, not to be dependent on others.
Finally, I want to say, never be the third party. This not only hurts others but also yourself. A classmate of mine went through this; in the end, she not only lost her dignity but also nearly ruined her reputation. Remember, we deserve to be loved openly and honestly.
Love is beautiful, but we must also stay clear-headed. As the comments say, being a bit more rational can really avoid a lot of harm. I hope every girl can meet the right person, but before that, you must love yourself well and guard your bottom lines. After all, the one who will accompany you to the end is always yourself.
