As an otaku who has lived in Guangzhou for many years, I deeply understand the hardships of finding a partner. Every time I see photos of couples showing off their love on social media, my heart is filled with mixed emotions. Until one day, I met a girl from Guangzhou, and her words completely changed my perspective on relationships.
She told me that many men often inadvertently say things that make women feel repelled when pursuing them. For example, some men might casually say things like, "Why are you so hard to chase?" or "Do you not like someone like me?" These phrases might seem ordinary, but they can make women feel that you lack confidence, or even that you are self-pitying.
She also shared six phrases that women hate hearing the most, such as "Do you think I'm not good enough for you?", "Do you think I'm annoying?", "Do you think I'm boring?", and so on. These phrases not only make women feel that you lack security but also that you are not mature enough.
After listening to her advice, I began to reflect on my own words and actions. I realized that I used to be too eager to express my feelings, neglecting the other person's feelings. Therefore, I decided to change my strategy, focusing more on the other person's feelings and needs rather than just pursuing the outcome.
Gradually, I found that my mindset became more peaceful, and I became more natural when interacting with women. I started to learn how to listen, to express concern at the right time, rather than just expressing my own feelings. As a result, I found that my relationships with women became more harmonious, and some women even started to show interest in me.
Once, while chatting with a girl, she suddenly said, "You are really good at chatting, and I feel very comfortable with you." At that moment, I realized that finding a partner is not that difficult; the key is to learn how to interact with women and how to make them feel your sincerity and concern.
So, if you are also an otaku struggling to find a partner, why not try these methods? Remember, sincerity and concern are the keys to winning a woman's heart. I hope my sharing can be helpful to you, and I wish you can find your own happiness soon.