Recently, while chatting with friends about the topic of dating between men and women, I realized that many of us have quite a few confusions. For instance, what does it really mean when a girl says, "I'm going to take a shower"? Do guys really need to learn so many complex theories to pursue a girl? Today, I’ll share my own experiences along with some comments from netizens to discuss this topic.
First, regarding the phrase "I'm going to take a shower" from a girl, there are actually many underlying implications. One netizen commented, "It seems there’s a lot to consider when getting a girlfriend, probably all based on experience." Indeed, what girls say often carries deeper meanings beyond the surface.
The first scenario: If you’re having a great conversation and the girl suddenly says, "I'm going to take a shower," this is actually a good sign. As mentioned in the article, girls usually freshen up, shower, and change clothes before a date, which might mean she’s ready to take things further with you. So, this could be a good time to invite her out, and you might just succeed in getting a date.
The second scenario: If during your conversation the girl seems uninterested, replies slowly, and then suddenly says, "I'm going to take a shower," she might just be brushing you off. A netizen joked, "I'm going to take a shower." In this case, the girl might not be interested in you, and persisting could only make her more annoyed. It’s wise to step back and give both of you some space.
The third scenario: If you’re having a particularly engaging conversation and the girl suddenly says, "I'm going to take a shower," she might genuinely have something to attend to. A netizen said, "Just in time to see your beauty!" In such cases, the girl usually reaches out again, so there’s no need to worry. Once she’s done, your conversation might even become more lively.
Next, let’s talk about guys pursuing girls. Actually, you don’t need to learn many complex theories; just doing three things well is enough. First, be sincere. Girls dislike pretense and affectation, so being your true self is crucial. Second, show more care. Girls love to be cared for and cherished, so pay attention to her likes and needs, and offer your care and help at the right times. Third, improve yourself. Whether it’s your external appearance or internal cultivation, continuously improving yourself will attract better girls.
A netizen said, "Learn some psychology to understand a woman’s heart." Indeed, understanding a girl’s psychology and needs can make you more adept in relationships. But most importantly, keep a sincere heart and genuinely feel the other person’s needs and feelings.
In summary, dating between men and women isn’t that complicated; the key is to feel and understand each other with your heart. I hope today’s sharing is helpful to everyone, and I welcome you to share your views and experiences in the comments. After all, everyone’s experiences and feelings are unique, and mutual exchange is the best way to grow and improve.
Finally, I wish everyone can find the right person, easily get out of singlehood, and be full of happiness!