People who choose to go on a blind date are basically people who don’t have much experience in dating. Because they usually have less contact with the opposite sex, they will inevitably fall into the embarrassment of being in the cold during the blind date and chat. So what should you do if the blind date and chat are cold?
1. Find common topics
When the blind date chat is quiet, you can try to find common topics for both parties. Once to resolve the awkward silence.
To put it simply, a common topic means that you can’t help but interrupt when chatting.
For example, you ask the other person: "What are your hobbies?"
Then they answer, tea ceremony, novels, music.
Then you happen to like it too, even if you find a common topic.
What if you don’t like it? Let’s take the tea ceremony as an example. You can say, what kind of tea have I drunk and what did it feel like? Please introduce it to me. As for reading, what are some good books that you have read? Can you recommend them to me?
This is also a common topic.
Another example is to see what’s special about the other person? Hairstyle? Watch? Earrings? Brooch?
Appropriate compliments can light up the other person’s emotions and bring out these special features. Tell the story behind the situation and let the other person start talking about themselves. When the other person's chat box is opened, you will naturally not be silent.
2. Start the topic from a TV show
The life you long for? Running Man?
< p>Except for people like me who don’t watch TV, most people will find resonance after talking about a few TV programs. And even people like me who don’t watch TV have paid attention to the life I long for.Therefore, if you feel awkward during a blind date, you can try to talk about this aspect.
If you are an avid TV show lover, then mention a few programs that you find interesting to the other party, and then tell her in depth which one she is interested in. to the content. If you don’t like it and others don’t like it, then you have to skip this section quickly.
3. Hot topics outside the court
If you don’t have a girlfriend, what would you do every day? Although There are those who study hard to recharge or participate in various training classes, but most people browse Weibo to read the news. The characteristic of the information age is that you do not need to actively search for information, and the information will be pushed to you actively, so Today's hot gossip topics and celebrity headlines can also be used to resolve awkward moments during blind dates and chats.
Such a topic can also focus the other person’s attention on you and test her at the same time.Personality and values, consider their compatibility, and think about new strategies and topics.
