Confessing love to a girl you like, but the answer you get is "I'm sorry". In this case, most boys will feel that there is no chance. But in fact, many girls are duplicitous. If she says sorry to you, she may just have not thought about it yet. So how to deal with this situation?
1. "How do you know if it is suitable if you don't try it?"
If after confessing your love, a girl rejects you for the reason "I'm sorry, I'm not suitable", can you say to her: "How will you know if you don't fit her if you don't try it?" In daily life, many girls have always lacked self-confidence. , maybe she has never been in love before, due to lack of experience, and lack of confidence that she can do it well. Or she is being pursued by a boy with better conditions, and which boy may be outstanding in her eyes, she is afraid that she is not worthy of him. If this is the case, you might as well convince her to give it a try first. Only after you try it will you know when something is inappropriate. You have to tell her that you have never been in love and nothing is known, and you firmly believe that she will consider this matter carefully.
2. "What are you worried about?"
Girls have always felt insecure, even if Born in a family with excellent family background, however, in front of the attention of some grown men, girls always have some inferiority complex. When you confess your pursuit of her, she always says sorry and not suitable. Then you can ask her: "What are you worried about?" Are you worried that you are not able to take care of her? Or are you worried that you are not good to her? Or are you worried about family factors? Ask her what are you worried about? Let her worry about it. She shared all her worries, only then could the difficulties be solved, and once the problem was solved, the matter would be settled.
3. "If there is anything I don't do well, you can point it out clearly"
In today's social development, girls have very high standards for finding a partner. And boys have always been improving their overall standards in order to pursue the girl they love. Regardless of your family background, you must at least have the ability to work economically and have a similar outlook on life. If a girl says sorry and rejects you for inappropriate reasons. You can ask her what she doesn't do well enough to make her unsatisfied. Because most of the time, women choose people who are good to them, not people they love.
In fact, girls are very easily impressed by boys, which also proves that women have a soft heart. Even if you confess to a girl and she said sorry at the time, it means that she has her own concerns. You just need to clarify her concerns and then solve them. In addition, don’t give up halfway when chasing girls, maybe you will succeed next time. Of course, if the girl is impatient and won't save you face when you are chasing her, don't bother her.Meaning, just let go in time.
