Many boys behave more generously when pursuing girls. They treat girls to a big meal, go shopping with girls, buy her clothes and bags, and prepare expensive gifts for girls during festivals... After being in contact with girls for a period of time, Before the girl could catch him, the wallet he had saved for a long time was already deflated. Is this right? Do I have to spend money to chase a girl? The following is an analysis of the importance of investing in yourself.
1. Do you need to spend money to chase a girl?
Before answering this question, let me ask you a question: Suppose you have 300,000, and you want to give a girl a super big one. surprise? ? Or buy yourself a BBA?
If you spend this money on a girl, she may fall in love with you so much that she will immediately call you baby, honey, love of her life, or even say she is willing to marry you. You look like you're happy as hell. But what if you don’t have an established relationship with a girl? Even if you are together, what if you break up later? Even if you get married, what if you get divorced later? If you spend your money on girls, you may end up with nothing.
And if you spend 300,000 to buy yourself a four-wheel sofa, you can drive it to meet A Xuan from the company next door or Alan downstairs, and they will all understand your value! The important thing is that if A Xuan and Alan become the past tense, then your little four-wheeler can also help you get to know the new long-legged girl named Xiao Li.
2. On the importance of investing in yourself
So, whether you are chasing girls or you If you are already in a relationship with a girl, there is nothing wrong with spending a little money on her, but most of the money should be spent on self-improvement! Buy the mobile phone that you have been thinking about buying for a long time and use it to package your circle of friends. I heard that the photos taken with it will look better. Try on all the clothes that you have been looking at for a long time and are reluctant to buy. Buy them if you think they are suitable. Don’t only have those two sets of clothes every time you go out...
Boys should also learn to wear most of the clothes. Spend all your money on yourself, it will really make you better. You are only 2 or 30 years old, and it is important to be respected by others. From 50 onwards, let’s stay calm and calm, okay? ?
Moreover, spending money on yourself is also an important economic principle, even if your partner will seriously object, yes , Emotions are so selfish sometimes. But it does work, but we are too kind-hearted and think that if we like a girl, we should be willing to spend money on her. But sometimes girls are often very realistic. The day you spend all your money on her, she may not spend money on you again. Stop, so investing more in yourself will attract her to stay.
