Many boys think that chasing a girl means persistence, and that if you persist and treat her well, you can catch her. However, in the end, they often receive responses like "You are a good person" from girls. When we chase a girl, we must not just be nice to her. We must learn to guide the girl to invest and pay for herself, and use some tips appropriately to chase her faster. Today, the editor is here to talk to you about the techniques of playing hard to get with girls.
Playing hard to get comes from 36 strategies, which means to let go of the enemy deliberately first, so that the enemy can relax his guard and gradually lose his fighting spirit, and then kill him again. catch.
Capture is the goal, verticality is the method. The best time to use play hard to get when chasing a girl is when your relationship is deeper and the other person is trying to advance the relationship with you.
At this time, we can alienate and push her away for a period of time, appropriately suppress the other person's psychology, and then catch her, but the premise is that we must feel that the other person has some interest in us, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
The verticality in Hard to Get can also be divided into mental "longitudinal" and behavioral "longitudinal".
To put it simply, "manipulation" in mentality means not to show too much need and try to control your restless soul. Otherwise, the other party will see through you and the other party will reduce their investment in you.
To put it simply, "manipulation" in behavior means being delicate and considerate, but not walking around her, appearing when it should appear, and disappearing when it should disappear. For example, when you understand each other to a certain extent, you don't need to chat for too long every day, because chatting for too long will not increase your goodwill, but will lose the sense of mystery.
Therefore, when you feel the atmosphere is good while chatting, disappear completely, don’t post social updates, and chat with her again in a few days, so that she has a mentality of why don’t you contact me until you finally come back? hint. If you post social updates and good-looking photos at this time, she will naturally pay attention to it.
How much manipulation can you do to capture the opponent?
When you think you can Spiritual communication, when we are relaxed and happy when getting along. You can close the net. This is the correct way to open the net.
When girls go through the freezing period and feel the gap and reluctance, they will cherish the things they have lost and found more, so that your relationship can take a further step.
